Do not despise humble/small/little beginnings. Why do some of us feel like hiding when we sit in "trotro" and even refuse to say 'hi' to someone we know on the same bus? What is wrong with starting life with no wardrobe in your rented apartment? Do you have a problem walking to places because your colleagues are driving big cars? Your worth is not dependent on where you live, your means of transport, how expensive your clothes are, or even what and where you eat. Your worth deals with who you are from the inside and WHOSE you are! Life is not permanent...There are good and bad days...Situations change....let us learn.....especially LADIES....what Paul the Apostle learnt...Phil.4:12 - I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.